See you can still hang out and do the same stuff you did before you had babies. That is if you have friends that understand that you have to be home for the 9:00 pm feeding or are willing to come to your house to hang out. Luckily, our friends love us so much (or love to be with the babies) that they travel to Eagan so we can all be together. I have really been spoiled since my bed rest started. People come to me, I don't go to people!